About HER+HER
Lauren and Nathalie, are the co-founders and couple behind HER+HER, who are reconnection coaches dedicated to helping individuals and couples build deeper, more connected relationships with themselves and their partners.
Our mission is deeply rooted in personal experiences of healing and growth.
We are committed to bringing this transformation to our clients, offering them the support and tools they need to identify what they truly long for, within themselves and their relationships.
Lauren Pratt
Co-Founder, HER+HER
Lauren Pratt's journey began as a queer child growing up in the church, where she faced the challenge of finding her true self in an environment that often misunderstood and rejected differences.
After years of feeling like she was living a life that wasn't her own, Lauren embarked on a journey of self-acceptance. Through inner child work, she found a way back to caring for the hurt little girl within who had been locked away for years. This powerful process became a catalyst for her own personal growth and transformed her perspective.
With a background in education, Lauren's passion for learning and personal growth became her guiding light. She discovered that embracing discomfort is key to transformation. She learned that the greatest growth often emerges from the most challenging moments. And now, she has made it her mission to share this valuable insight with others.
Lauren's coaching philosophy is rooted in her commitment to her own growth. Drawing from her own experiences, she confronts her fears head-on and forges a path towards authenticity. Lauren leads her coaching with the mindset of embracing your true, authentic self with compassion to discover the incredible growth waiting for you on the other side.
Nathalie Calderon
Co-Founder, HER+HER
Nathalie Calderon, also known as FabulousNat, was born with a congenital birth defect, Tibial Hemimelia, which lead to the amputation of her right leg just before her first birthday. She battled with loving and accepting herself and her disability for over 25 years. She hid her prosthetic leg from the world and kept it a deep guarded secret, restricting what she wore, where she went, and what she believed she could achieve. Her own healing journey took her through self-acceptance, self-love, and mindset shifts to unleash the inner fabulosity that now radiates through her life.
Her mission is to help women embrace their own inner fabulosity, grow in love with themselves and live life in their full authenticity.
She is a life coach, speaker, author, and self-love activist currently living in Thailand with her life partner, Lauren Pratt, with whom she travels the world as a digital nomad with. They are co-founders of the brand black queer healing community, Her+Her, and together are relationship and mindset coaches to individuals and couples around the world.
Work With Us
1:1 Reconnection Breakthrough sessions
Uncover root causes of disconnection, enhance communication, and rebuild trust and intimacy in 45 minutes. Gain practical tools for a thriving, loving relationship with personalized guidance.
1:1 Global Travel coaching
Unlock your dream of living abroad in just 4 months--gain confidence, practical skills, strategize and prepare for your new life in another country.
Fun Facts:
COUNTRIES WE'VE LIVED
Costa Rica, South Korea, Thailand, Colombia, Brazil*
OUR FAVORITE COUNTRY
Where we met - South Korea
FAVORITE FOODS
Lauren - Jjimdak, Dakdoritang, Massaman Curry
Nathalie - Puerto Rican Pasteles, Dakdoritang,
Thai Green Curry
OUR SECRET OBSESSIONS
We LOVE tea, especially our homemade spicy Chai tea, pineapple-ginger-lemon tea & ginger tea
Korean Skincare - we travel with our favorite face pads always!
ZODIACS
Lauren - Pisces ☀, Cancer ☾, Aries Rising
Nathalie - Taurus ☀, Leo ☾, Cancer Rising
FOLLOW US
@herandhergirlfriend
Our Community Guidelines
Our Community Meetups are intentionally designed as a safe and affirming space for women and nonbinary identifying individuals—especially Black & Queer folk—seeking connection, community, and shared experiences.
We welcome those who align with our mission of fostering authenticity, support, and respect in these spaces.
By attending, you agree to honor the space, engage with kindness, and uphold the spirit of inclusivity and respect that makes these gatherings special.
💜 Together, we create spaces where we can show up fully, safely, and unapologetically. 💜
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Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)
Do I have to be queer to participate?
No, these events are a safe space for women, especially Black & Queer women in Thailand. Allies who respect the space and community are welcome.
Are men welcome?
No, these events are exclusively for women to foster a safe and supportive space.
Do I need to register in advance?
Yes! Registration is required to secure your spot. Sign-ups close 24 hours before each event to allow for planning.
How do I pay for paid events?
Attendees will bring their payment (cash - Thai baht) and pay directly at the event locations. This keeps things simple and supports local businesses.
Can I bring a friend?
Yes! Just make sure they register separately so we can keep track of attendance.
Are these events just in Bangkok?
As of now, we primarily host events in Bangkok, but we plan to organize trips to other cities in Thailand in the future.
Will there be more events like this?
Yes! This is just the beginning. Stay tuned for more community-driven experiences across Thailand!
Are queer men welcome?
No, these events are specifically designed for women in the Black & Queer community.
Are kids allowed?
No, these events are for adults only to maintain the intended atmosphere and experience.
Are these events free?
Some events are free, while others require payment. Event details will always include pricing information, so be sure to check before registering.
